Thursday, August 13, 2015

Ramadan, Syawal and Me ( Nur Syahira Izaty Binti Abu Hassan )

My experience of Ramadhan is centered on my family, the food we eat, and the prayers spent in the mosques for thejumaat,tarawih and tahajud. Ourhadith (Traditions of the Prophet) state that the obligatory prayer counts seventy times its value during this month,  and that sunnah prayer / voluntary prayer gains the same reward as an obligatory one, and that in the Night of Ascension /Laylatul Qadr is better than that of a thousand months.We generally spend more money during Ramadhan. In terms of the food, duringi’ftar (breaking of fast during night time) it was like a feast The day’s sacrifice is indeed rewarded during night time.Ramadhan in our hometown in Kedah had a festive atmosphere, bringing families and relatives more close to one another, sharing religious experiences and moral discipline.Ramadhan, in this mosaic of a moral universe, is a site of higher order, a moral exception which through the exercise of fasting established a clear hierarchy and a clear teleology: the commands of God and the prospect of Paradise.” It seems that we can not expect all Muslims to be practicing Muslim the whole year round.The way I see it, the month of Ramadhan makes Muslims more observant of their faith and their religious obligations. It is also a season where most of the datus are not drinking alcoholic beverages. The beer houses are closed, gambling like cock fighting and any card games are also put on hold. We give respect to the holy month.This year 2015, Ramadan begins at where I `m  going to college.it was my first experience fasting far away from my family. For me Ramadan is the Islamic month of fasting in which Muslims around the world refrain from eating, drinking, that is in excess or ill-natured; from dawn until sunset. Fasting is meant to teach the Muslim patience, modesty and spirituality. Ramadhan is a time for Muslims to fast for the sake of God (Allah) and to offer more prayers than usual.During Ramadhan, Muslims ask forgiveness for past sins, pray for guidance and help in refraining from everyday evils, and try to purify themselves through self-restraint and good deeds.We have to understand that the dates of Ramadhan vary, moving backwards about ten days each year as it is a moving holiday depending on the moon.  Ramadan commemorates the month in which the first verses of the Qur’an were said to be revealed to the Islamic Prophet Muhammad (Peace be upon him).Nowadays, when I grow up learning about the harsh realities in in my life, we celebrate Ramadhan not just by refraining from eating and drinking in excess but most importantly treat this as a time for peace, reflection and resolution to end the decades of conflict.  In the whole month of Ramadhan, Muslims are expected to give the time to Allah (SWT). On the last day, it is the time for “idl fitr“, the feast of breaking the fast that marks the end of the holy month.Every year, after one month of fasting, Muslims celebrate Hari Raya Puasa which falls in the month of Syawal. All Muslims celebrate the day with great joy. In the morning, they go to the mosque to pray. Then, on returning home, they receive guests and relatives who come to pay them a call.
Days before, the womenfolk make many varieties of cakes, cookies and sweetmeats. They also cook 'rendang' curries and prepare satay to go with the 'ketupat'. Homes are decorated with many coloured lights all over the garden. Small lamps are lit and placed along the driveway.
On Hari Raya Day, many Malaysians visit their Muslim friends to share their joy. They receive warm hospitality and are entertained to a feast of specially prepared food. Boys and girls wear new clothes and shoes. Girls wear jewellery and boys new 'songkoks'.
And  my syawal experience is the best experience in life.For my opinion when Ramadan is over,that means that our activities in Ramadan is cannot be stop until Ramadan month only.All the good deed and charity that we do in Ramadan we have to do it forever.Syawal month is the month that all muslim are obligatory to be happy and be grateful. For me too, I have my own experience for hari raya.This year is the first experience when a day before hari raya I `m  on my way to my hometown.This was a long journey for me which are I going back to my house with a bus nearly 9 hours because a traffic jam.During Hari Raya, my family and I gathered in the living room to ask for forgiveness from my parents.After that we all going to pray an eidulfitri prayer at the mosque.When the prayer is ended, we all are going to the graveyard to visit my late grandfather, and my aunt.This activities was the normal for us every years.After we eat the normal food for hari raya such as `ketupat’,`rendang`,`lemang’ and some `kuih raya’ we will visited our neighbours and relatives.Syawal is the month for us to be grateful for all the goodness and what we have nowdays.We also encouraged to do more charity and give a help for the people that needed.

The town is usually crowded with Muslims dressed gaily and going about. They visit their friends and relatives while some go to the cinemas or to the Lake Gardens. Many, however, go back to their `kampung' to celebrate the festival with their parents. It is also a time for family reunions. Everyone rejoices during this festive season.















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